As always, Mason has been looking forward to his birthday with great anticipation for months. This year, more than ever, I felt the need to make it a day that left no doubt in his mind how special and loved he is. At the end of the day Mason told me, "This is going in the record books as the best birthday ever!" - mission accomplished!
The day started off with a surprise delivery of birthday donuts on the front porch from "someone who thinks you (Mason) are really cool!" I was so grateful to whoever went out of their way to make Mason feel so special on his birthday.
Next up was Mason's birthday party. Mason had some very specific requests for his party this year. He wanted a football party where all we did was play flag football with his friends, he wanted it on his actual birthday, and he wanted it earlier in the day so he didn't have to wait for it. None of those were completely unreasonable requests so we planned to have his party at a park nearby where he and his friends could play football. Easy enough, until the forecast refused to cooperate and the threat of rainstorms all weekend led us to schedule our church gym as plan B. Sure enough the rain persisted and we met in the church gym. After 30 minutes of the boys playing some intense football complete with running, sliding, diving, and colliding with one another and nothing but hard floors and walls to break their falls we decided to switch gears before someone broke a bone or got a concussion and started playing steal the flag and dodge ball instead. Mason was disappointed by this decision, but everyone else seemed to really enjoy playing the different games.



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| Mason helped make his cake this year. The candles were supposed to be in a play configuration. |
Even though Mason didn't get his fill of football at his party, as soon as the party was over it was time for him to go to his actual flag football game where he got the ultimate birthday gift of getting to start on offense for the entire game (up until this point he had only played on defense). His birthday could have ended right then and it still would have been the best birthday ever, but there was still more fun and excitement planned.
We have a tradition that the kids get to choose where they want to go out to eat for their birthday dinner. Up until now, they have always chosen McDonalds, but this year Mason upped the ante quite a bit when he requested Red Lobster. Mason has always loved seafood with salmon and shrimp being some of his favorite foods. When he found out that you can eat crab legs and lobster he was dying to try them. So Scott and I took him out, just the three of us, for an extra special birthday dinner at Red Lobster where he enjoyed a grown man's portion of crab legs, coconut shrimp, and salmon. A couple of priceless comments were after we were seated at our table he said, "This is a lot different than I thought it would be....I thought it would look like the inside of Dairy Queen." and then at the end of the meal when he declared, "I think this just beat Taco Bell as my new favorite restaurant!"

The last event of the day was a trip to Petco for Mason to pick out his new leopard gecko. Mason has wanted a pet gecko for months and has been diligently saving his money so he could buy all the necessary equipment for it. We surprised him at this birthday party by giving him a terrarium kit complete with everything he needs and a coupon for his very own leopard gecko. When we got to the pet store he immediately knew which gecko was his (the biggest and grossest one). We came home and got everything set up for Spotty, his Gecko's chosen name, and watched him devour his first feast of live crickets in his new home. I have to admit that right about this time Scott and I were both experiencing some serious regret over agreeing to this, but seeing the excitement and joy in Mason made it worth it - almost.

As I mentioned before, I really wanted Mason to feel how loved he is, and thanks to all our family and friends who called, facetimed, sent cards, or reached out in any other way on his birthday there was no denying how special Mason felt.
As per tradition, here are a few things to document 8-year-old Mason.
- He is the 8-year-old version of tall dark and handsome. I constantly get comments from other moms about what a good looking kid Mason is or how their daughter has a crush on him.
- His good looks are balanced out by his social awkwardness.
- He is a reading machine and can rarely be found without his nose in a book.
- He has a very big heart and cares a lot about other people and their feelings.
- He loves being silly silly silly.
- Latest obsessions include camper vans, Harry Potter, geckos and football.
- He is a night owl who hates going to sleep at night. We often find him hinding under the covers with a flashlight and book long after his bedtime.
- Mason is incredibly smart. We've always called him our walking encycopedia because of the vast amount of knowledge he has about so many random subjects (see bullet three about reading anything and everything). He enjoys and excels in every subject in school. I am so curious to see what kind of career he ends up pursuing, since I can think of about 20 that he would be great at.
- His little brother and sister look up to him very much.